The Five Love Languages.
To stay happy in our life , we need love from others specially from our family, Partner, friends, etc. And without love even if we will get all the good things of life we will still not to able to enjoy it alone without other's love.
Author Gray Chapman, who is an Expert of relationships, family and marriages. Says every human contains a love tank. Which needs love from their loved ones, till they get that love and support from their loved ones, they feel mentally and physically stable. They feel happy but if they do not get that love and support. Which they expect, then that love tank start getting empty. They feel unstable mentally and physically. They do not feel good and happy. And when finally that love tank gets empty. Then the bigger problems starts in a relationship. Like fights, sadness,breakup etc..
Hence, the actual reason is that most of people love language is different. Which failed to understand, if you want happy relationship with your family and with your soulmate. you have to know how you and your partners both give and receive love. You know The 5 Love Languages.
Let's Begin...
The 5 Love Languages.
Love Language #1: Words Of Affirmation.
Word of affirmation means something to your partner which make them feel good,
For Example : saying I Love You, Why to love them ? Always telling them the reason why you love theme by saying or writing or by anything. To say something which encourage them, To them compliment, To Appreciate them for every small and bug things they do etc .
Those who have word of affirmation as there primary love language. Will feel good when you say good things to them. Only then they can feel your real love and care.
Love Language #2: Quality Time.
Quality time, I mean giving someone your undivided attention. I don’t mean sitting on the couch watching television together. When you spend time that way, love ones has your attention—not your spouse. What I mean is sitting on the couch with the TV off, looking at each other eye contact and talking, giving each other your undivided. attention.
It means taking a walk, just the two of you. Spend more time with them. Ask them many questions them what they'd like do to with you. Please don't assume what they'd like do with you...directly ask them.
Love Language #3: Receiving Gifts.
Receiving gifts sure we are like getting gifts. But this type of person loves receiving gift above all else gifts. To this type of person mean everything because its shows the love through and effort that went into the gift. I am not taking materialistic or the cost of the object but the thought behind it missed birthday anniversaries and thoughtless gift tear this type of person apart.
The Cost doesn't matter It's the thought it it can be as simple as a card, chocalate, give a flowers, little things make them happy.
Love Language #4: Acts Of Service.
When someones primary language is this, they will not feel not be happy, just because you bring gifts for them, compliment them. Instead they will feel your true love when you help them for some work.
Work like for example : Cooking food, help them in home works, earning money to fullfil the house needs etc .
Love Language #5: Physical Touch.
Physical touches means sex is not the only way of physical touch. Instead it is a very pure language to show your love. For example : when a mother kiss or hug child to show her love. It's also a physical touch.
Physical touch is a very strong way of showing your love or feeling the love, just spreading time together watch movie, play,hold hands their while walking etc. These thinks can make them feel your love.
Conclusion :
Try to find out the primary love language of yours and your loved ones. Show them your love by their primary love language. Sometimes you can use all five languages.
I have shared this with you all from the Five Love Languages book by Gary Chapman. If you want to understand these languages in detail.
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